I imagine you are here because you have received a 'complaint' via your membership body...
For Therapists, receiving a complaint can be one of the most distressing experiences of your professional life. This isn’t just a process; it’s a deeply personal challenge that can shake your confidence, your identity as a Therapist, and your sense of safety in your work.
You are welcome here; you are so much more than a complaint!
It is a shock to receive a complaint and complaints are often investigated.
Investigations are an administrative series of checks, assessments and decisions, which follow a specified timeline. From the outside looking in the end to end process is slow.
The emotional impact of being investigated is significant, and can feel deeply personal.
I’m here to offer you reassurance, emotional support, and administrative guidance; helping you recognise that a complaint does not define you, even when it feels like it does.
My support is shaped around what you need. That might be emotional support, or help with paperwork or navigating procedures. You have full autonomy to ask for what you need, at the time you feel you need it…
You can choose one, a few, or all of my services...
Please see the How I Help Therapists Through Complaints section for additional and specific details of my services
Each complaint is different, as is the investigation that follows. The procedure can feel anything but transparent, it takes time, and outcomes can be uncertain and thus Therapist Overwhelm is natural.
No matter what your modality is, or which professional body you are a member of, I’m here to support you.
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Emotional Support
A complaint about you can feel personal, and can lead to shame, self-doubt, anxiety and more. As Therapists facing a complaint we can feel vulnerable in the presence of peers and often need an extra safe space to process our thoughts and feelings; I am a safe compassionate Therapist. I get it, it’s tough, feeling you are not good enough. Importantly, I don’t and wont judge you; a big fear when we are amongst peers! So many Therapists hide in shame (I did for nearly two years) and suffer in painful silence. Please don’t let that be you…
Together we will:
Understand The Investigation Procedure
During the shock and emotional overwhelm of a complaint notification, it can be difficult to take in the necessary details. The procedure documents cover a lot of information over a lot of pages! The investigation procedure is a series of checks, assessments and decisions operating to its own timeline; that timeline can feel agonisingly slow…
I will help you:
Responding To The Investigation
Your initial / first response to a complaint can be a stressful and time-consuming part of the process, yet it is also one of the most important and impactful; a Solicitor can write an initial response for you. However, from my experience of working with Therapists, you actually have all the evidential and essential data you need to produce the initial response yourself. Also, your authentic voice matters!
I will help you:
Preparing For Panels Or Hearings
There is a distinct difference between a panel and a hearing; and they can both feel scary. Panels are in the early stages of an investigation and your attendance is (mostly) not required. A Hearing is formal and - usually - marks the final step. Your case may go to both, or be dismissed at the panel stage. The panel might order a sanction, or other outcome.
I will help you:
Recovery After The Final Decision
Redefining your practice, repairing your wounded self, or perhaps changing career are each part of the recovery process, which really can’t begin until the final decision has been communicated. That final decision could be issued at any time in the proceedings, and it’s important to acknowledge how you feel. Together, we can redefine your identity as a Therapist, strengthen your professional confidence and re-establish your sense of self
I will help you:
The Complaints Counsellor – Your Compassionately Supportive Ally!
I’m the Therapist you didn’t know you needed, until you do and I truly do understand what it is like to be the subject of a complaint. I took it very personally, I was deeply hurt and really struggled throughout the process, and beyond the final decision. You may already know my story; you might be here because you saw me present at a conference, or you read an article I wrote, or listened to a podcast, or took part in some of my CPD, you might follow me on social media…
I’m a Therapist just like you. I have so much compassionate empathy for Therapists who are complained about; I want to help you through your experience, whether that is one session with me, drop-in sessions when you need to talk, or regular sessions; it is your decision and I respect your autonomy.
I am a gentle soul with a big heart and a big desire for fairness and equality. My former career was in Corporate Management - Governance of Business and IT Procedures so I’m very acquainted with formal documented procedures. In the most part I think many of them have a place, but the procedures that are overly formal, emotionally harmful and unnecessarily unyielding do not have my support!
I offer you my soothing compassionate understanding and a deep desire to help you process your way through what it is like to be accused of professional mal-practice or misconduct. I will create a warm supportive space between us, into which you can openly express and make a mess; whatever helps. Although gentle, I can powerfully hold the distress that many Therapists face during an investigation.
A complaint does not define you and if I can get through a complaint investigation, I wholeheartedly believe you can too.
I took up wild swimming during my investigation; something that has really changed my world for the better. I love nature especially at sunrise and sunset. I will dance wildly around a campfire and I love yoga and breathwork and astrology and all things up there in the night sky.
I promise to offer you the core conditions with extra compassion. Let my lived experience help you live through your experience…
I call myself The Complaints Counsellor, my public facing name is Coco Muir, this isn't my birth name.
I offer you full transparency - I chose a public name of Coco Muir to protect the rest of my business.
I am very open about being complained about and non-therapist clients who Google me can easily make a connection to my complaints related marketing and sadly many have chosen not to work with me based on a complaint from 5 years ago.
This impact on my business led me to create two separate businesses:
The Complaints Counsellor is purely to support Therapists* facing complaints. Therapists will, (I trust) understand my reason for having a 'public name'.
I will of-course share my birth name and proof of qualifications and insurance when we decide to work together.
(* I also work with other professionals facing complaints, egregious accusations and misconduct)
You can ask for a copy of my credentials:
I felt calm for the first time in months! I've had a terrible experience living in fear my career will end. I now have hope that I can continue to be a Psychotherapist and that I will put all this behind me
Anonymous
What an ugly mashup; I am so angry that no-one listened to my explanation. My MB really let me down.
I am slowly processing my anger and rebuilding my practice. I wish I'd found you years ago - the result could have been very different.
Anonymous
I feel so betrayed, by a client, a system and the time its took - its ridiculous. I was sanctioned and thought I'd never get over the humiliation. But I learned a lot in this space and I did finally decide to remain a Counsellor. You really know how to support Therapists!
Anonymous
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